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Love Code Quiz
Is your relationship sufficiently protected?
Discover how well your relationship is protected. Get immediate results with the
Love Code Quiz.
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Protect
When you Protect Love, you keep it safe from harm. This requires both partners to manage your emotions and to establish healthy boundaries to support the well-being of both yourself and your relationship.
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We are accepting of one another and our differences.
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False
Unsure
We only speak positively about one another and our relationship to others.
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False
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We trust that we will always have one another’s back.
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We trust each other with finances.
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False
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We trust each other with friends, aquaintances and co-workers.
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False
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We trust each other with our secrets.
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When we are sick, we take care of each other.
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We can count on each other.
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False
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We are honest with each other.
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False
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We are loyal to one another and our relationship agreements.
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We support one another’s highest good, and biggest dreams.
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We feel secure in our commitment.
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We are both committed to ensuring we can meet our essential needs in this relationship.
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We treat our differences with curiosity and acceptance.
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False
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We intend to make choices that “add to,” not “take away from” our relationship.
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We do not give energy and attention to distractions that will undermine our relationship.
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We communicate our thoughts and feelings openly, even when it is difficult to say/hear.
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False
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We apologize when we are wrong or when we have caused one another hurt.
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We feel emotionally and physically safe and respected by each other.
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We feel safe to express how we feel about anything and everything with one another.
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We actively work to improve how we address our conflicts to minimize the damage to our relationship.
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We engage in meaningful (connected) conversations that involve the sharing of our inner worlds with one another at least once a day.
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Unsure
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City and State
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Length of Relationship
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0-1 year
1-3 years
4-7 years
8-10 years
11-15 years
16-20 years
20-30 years
30-40 years
40-50 years
51 or more years
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Female
Non-binary AFAB
Male
Transfemale
Primarily Attracted to
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Female
Non-binary AFAB
Male
Transfemale
In 5 words or less what is your #1 relationship concern?
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