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Love Code Quiz
How enjoyable is your relationship?
Assess how well you are contributing to your relationship’s enjoyment. Get immediate results with the
Love Code Quiz.
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Enjoy
You can Enjoy Love when you take responsibility for creating positive, uplifting, and joyful interactions as well as incorporating novelty and surprise to keep love alive and a feel-good and satisfying experience.
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We regularly make time for play in our relationship.
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False
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We are happy to see each other when one of us walks into the room.
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False
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We enjoy talking with one another.
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False
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My partner is my favorite person to spend time with.
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We have a lot of fun together.
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False
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We feel special to one another.
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False
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We laugh a lot.
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False
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We have inside jokes and playful behaviors that we do not engage in with others.
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True
False
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We enjoy our free-time doing things together.
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False
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We vacation / get away together (just the two of us) at least once or more per year.
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False
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We enjoy running errands, and other tasks involved in day-to-day life, together.
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False
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We share a similar sense of humor.
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False
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We support each other’s healthy pursuit of hobbies and interests and enjoy seeing one another happy.
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False
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Meeting my partner's needs helps me feel connected to her, not controlled by her.
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We find comfort in one another's company.
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False
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We have a satisfying sex life that accomodates both of our desires.
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False
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We encourage one another to engage in activities that fuel aliveness and passion, knowing our relationship benefits from this positive energy.
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False
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We find ways to maintain our individuality/autonomy that add to, not take away from our relationship.
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True
False
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We celebrate one another's successes with joy/excitement.
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True
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City and State
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Length of Relationship
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0-1 year
1-3 years
4-7 years
8-10 years
11-15 years
16-20 years
20-30 years
30-40 years
40-50 years
51 or more years
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Female
Non-binary AFAB
Male
Transfemale
Primarily Attracted to
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Female
Non-binary AFAB
Male
Transfemale
In 5 words or less what is your #1 relationship concern?
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